Never Give Up, Never Quit
By Haji Haider Shohaz, Kharan
Great People are just ordinary people, extraordinary amount of determination. (Robert Schuller)
Life always seems to present us with innumerable challenges and problems on a daily basis.
It throws left Hooks when we were expecting Right ones; it gives us Apples when Desire Orange; it even present us with seemingly awful surprises that we were not expecting, and it bloats us with un-resourceful emotion, that tend to tie Us down to a life of mediocrity and unhappiness.
Never give up . . .
It is very easy to strive towards the attainment of our Goals and Objectives when the oceans are calm and nothing appears to be standing in our way. However, if we are not mentally prepared the moment something begins to stir the waters & rock the side-to-side, we begin to panic and struggle to deal with our circumstances. We see these problems and challenges as larger than Life and way beyond our capabilities and mean. These events may very well end up overwhelming us and causing great heartache and hardship. As a result, we may and quitting and throwing in the towel of defeat, all because our resolve was not strong enough to handle the burden associated with our journey towards the attainment of our objectives.
Obstacles within ourselves . . .
Probably the toughest and most challenging obstacles that we face come from ourselves. These obstacles are extremely challenging to overcome because in many instances we are simply blinded to their existence. One’s first objective is to identify these obstacles and endeavor to understand low which are affecting the life and perception of reality. Secondly, this must be learnt to deal with them in an effective and resourceful way that will once again help move anyone in the direction.
Lack of desire . . .
The lack of desire means that simply do not have enough emotion behind someone’s actions. It means that the goals and objectives that are working towards are not yet emotionally important enough. As a result, when obstacles come your way You will not have the emotional Reservoirs available to successfully deal with these challenges, and you will therefore likely succumb to your predicament without putting up a flight.
Lack of Self -Belief . . .
When belief is Lacking, then one have very little hope of achieving anything of significance in life.
The very moment an obstacle comes across the path if someone lacks belief and unfortunate will manifest ways.
Lack commitment. . .
A lack of commitment is somewhat related to a rack of desire. However, when it comes to commitment it pretty much stems from one’s inability to manufacture enough. Why reasons to move one through the obstacles that stand in its way.
Asking too many Why Questions ‘’Why’’, questions are self-sabotaging programming tools that focus on someone and its inadequacies and weaknesses.
* Why does this always happen to me . . .?
* Why do i always fail . . .?
* Why is life always against me . . .?
Is the moment one should effectively pack up that’s bags & leaves the big brother house. These questions are resourceful and self-sabotaging force that will put off into a state of great and emotional weakness, avoid them at all costs.
Rushing decisions . . .
In many instances we sabotage our success and create unnecessary obstacles along our path simply because we rush our decision making process. We rush our decisions because of a lack of time or as a result of external pressures or circumstances. And the consequences of such inefficient decision making can sometimes cost us more than the process of refraining from making the decision in the first place.
Making incorrect decisions . . .
Other times we simply make incorrect decisions due to a lack of understanding about a situation, or due to a lack of experience or resources.
‘’We should not quit because quitters never win, winners never quit’’